Psychological knowledge oratorical arts
The interested Everyoneesovan to know how to speak, because it gives the opportunity to establish and maintain good relations with people in different teams:
- in the family;
- in the enterprise;
- public and other organizations.
Today we'll talk about how to master the basics of psychological knowledge to be used in communicating with people in order to better understand them, what to talk about in private, at the meetings as build and deliver a speech in front of a wider audienced. And tell us about this coach oratorical arts Dmitry Malinochka:.
It should be a person the ability to speak eloquently, if he had nothing to skato show? In order to listen to you (in a narrow range, or a wider audience), you must always have in store for something new, and to tell interesting, exciting. And for this we need to be observant, to follow developments, not only in his country but also around the world, interested in social and political life, culture and sports, science andtechnology, love nature, have certain hobbies and activities.
Work on a
The knowledge, information events should be taken so that later they can be shared with friends, acquaintances, co-workers, students during a lecture. To learn ChoirOsho, substantively speaking, you need to constantly enrich their rank and experience, to improve education, in other words, fully develop their personalities. Good luck in your work and relationships with people you will achieve only when continuously work on ourselves. After all, the ability to speak well is always evolving with the expansion of the political, Cultural and professional horizons. You will not be able to express themselves in a small or large team, if you just repeat what they have heard from others. A man who knows how to speak properly, easily establishes relationships with their loved ones, with other people around him, finds real friends, companions, companion in life ... Thanks to the floorth he enjoys life. For single people are not happy. For example, you are not fully satisfied with life. The reason for this is often what you have not been able to establish good relationships with the people around you.
Getting should occurs like this: "This is - Karel Novak, and this - Jaroslav Schmid. Mr. Novak worked as a designer of building machines. Mr. Schmid works planner at the plant of building materials. In addition to construction, their interests coincide in the fact that they both love to play chess". For example, you can not put one question after another, as you interrogatingrights, for example:
- Where do you live?
- What is your specialty?
- How much do you earn?
- How many children do you have?
In addition, to askany of his salary tactless. If you still want to know about earning source, then it can be done differently. Speaking about his work, you call your salary and then asked: "And what is the average salary in your organization?" He whom you ask, has the opportunity to answer this question a common phrase. If your partner is not MFitaet data on its earnings a personal matter, it is easy to answer. At the same time, this issue will enable him to avoid answering. During familiarization with the other person suggested as soon as possible to identify common interests. If the one who introduced the people who did not mention the fact that both persons, for example, like to play chess, it will take time,Before it turns out that these people have a common passion.
So it is advisable, in addition to basic information, to say something about their own interests, for example: "I love symphonic music I like to play chess, and on weekends engaged in gardening and horticulture" . If the interests of your interlocutor somewhat coincide with yourE, then it would be right: he immediately starts with you to talk about it. And two people who are in the early evening did not know each other, go out of the house with the owner, talking like old friends. The purpose of the first phrases when meeting is to identify common interests and concerns. Once this is achieved, the conversation will begin to developitself.
topics of conversation
For example, of the British say they are too often talk about the weather. Although it is rather boring topic of conversation, but safe in the sense that it is unlikely to lead to differences of opinion, which should be avoided when meeting. After all, it is unlikelyyatno that you will be able to establish contact with the person, beginning with the introduction of the dispute. When it comes to music, one of the interlocutors may be a supporter of classical music, and the second - a modern; this may be the situation in a conversation about art. Talk about football, the parties suddenly find that one of them is a fan of"Dinamo", the second - in "Spartacus" and others.
It is not surprising that people in a casual acquaintance in the train or bus prefer neutral topics such as talking about the weather. While dating women and men usually refer to different themes: Men often talk about the economy politics, sports; instead of togasof women are more interested in personal aspects of life, especially the children, all that is connected with them (for example, school, health, food, housekeeping), clothing, fashion and so on. d.
If you choose to talk about the topic, which was not entirely neutral, being careful not to offend others. Theme holidaysseemingly completely neutral. And you begin to describe his journey to Italy or Egypt, which can afford to because there are no children, or because my wife and I earn good money. Cause it pleasant for those who do not have such opportunities? Everything will depend on how you tell.
If visokodumno stress in any luxury hotel you lived, what himself bought and et al., is a pleasant experience to his new acquaintance (friends) you do not do. If we talk about a variety of fun adventures and stories during the trip, then you are interested in this his interlocutor. In this case, the end can benote that the journey of a distant foreign land was tedious and vacation home has its advantages. Then you ask with interest, where he spent a vacation your new friend (friend) and read it (it) to listen.