Shame.to: A BDSM Social Network for Dating, Community, and Alternative Lifestyles
Shame.to is a niche BDSM social network created for adults interested in fetish culture, kink lifestyles, and alternative relationship dynamics. The platform combines dating features, social interaction, creator tools, and classified listings into one structured ecosystem designed specifically for like-minded users.
Shame is built for people who value transparency, compatibility, and community engagement, offering a single environment instead of spreading interactions across multiple services.
What Is Shame?
Shame is an adult-focused BDSM social network that integrates several core functions: BDSM and fetish dating Social networking and themed communities Creator profiles with subscription options Classified listings and lifestyle announcements By bringing these elements together, the platform supports connection, communication, and content discovery within a space tailored to the fetish and kink audience. Unlike mainstream dating apps, Shame emphasizes structured matching based on real preferences. Users can connect using detailed filters such as: BDSM roles, including Dominant, Submissive, and Switch Fetish and kink interests Gender identity and sexual orientation Location and availability This approach helps reduce mismatches and supports clear, consent-based communication from the start. As a BDSM social network, Shame goes beyond dating. Members can: Join interest-based communities Follow other users and creators Participate in discussions Share posts related to fetish culture and lifestyle These features encourage ongoing interaction while allowing users to control their level of visibility and engagement. Shame also supports creators who want to build an audience within a relevant niche community. Creator tools include: Subscription-based access to exclusive content Direct support from followers Increased visibility through community activity Interaction within the same social and dating ecosystem This model allows creators to stay connected with their audience in an authentic, community-driven environment. The platform offers a structured feed for discovering member-generated content, including: Lifestyle-focused fetish media Exclusive creator posts Community discussions and updates Dating features, social content, and listings are clearly separated, giving users control over how they interact with the platform. Shame includes a classifieds section for lifestyle-related listings such as: Personal ads and connections Events, meetups, and parties Clubs, venues, and announcements Collaboration opportunities Listings are organized by location, category, and tags to support easy local discovery. As an adult-only BDSM social network, Shame is built around: Consent-first interaction Privacy and profile visibility controls Clear content categorization Active moderation and platform guidelines These principles help maintain a respectful and organized space for niche social interaction. Dedicated BDSM social network Compatibility-based dating Community-focused interaction Creator subscription features Localized classified listings Shame offers a unified platform for adults seeking meaningful connections, community engagement, and a structured environment for BDSM and fetish lifestyles.
Compatibility-Driven BDSM Dating
Social Interaction and Fetish Communities
Creator Profiles and Subscription Features
Content Discovery and User Posts
Classified Listings and Local Announcements
Privacy, Consent, and Community Standards
Why Choose Shame?